just another thought!!!!!!!!!!

I was just sitting and wondering, What is more difficult to bear?

i. Your own hardships ?

ii. Your Loved ones' hardships and pains ?

I guess, our loved ones' hardships....Because when you are in trouble, you can help yourself and search for solutions. But when your loved ones face hardships, it brings such pain that will burn you every second....But the worst is not being able to help them, that very feeling of helplessness...One tear from their eyes is enough to keep you awake whole night or irritated for the next whole week....But then I read somewhere, "Let your loved ones struggle...Else, u will retard their growth and deprive them of the lessons which only life can teach......"

Well, we all read the fundas of life in so many novels, books and stories......But you understand their meaning only when you experience them yourself. And when life's struggles teach you the already learnt lessons, you feel as if you have discovered something really new but true forever.....